Friday, September 09, 2005
This whole week had been a busy week...and the 'busyness' is not gonna end just yet...
Monday went out for the whole day after I woke up, watched midnight show 'Red Eye'...not bad la...the movie's abit short though...
Tuesday went to Johore after I woke up. Errr...and that's about 4pm. So by the time we went, it's already 6pm. Nevertheless, went by car very convenient...so still okay...Will give more details of my Johore trip in my next blog entry, now just a summary of my 'busyness'...haha
Wednesday working. Then after finish work met Rachel and Eugene go Mambo. Quite alot of my other friends are there also. The music for the night was not bad, plus saw some of the Project Superstars there. Never see my dearest Junyang, although he did come (errr...with Huiping...and the rest la of course, haha). Keep seeing THAT Derrick (Sorry...but I dislike him very much).
Thursday is nua-day. Woke up very late...nua mah...
Sigh...tomorrow working again...Sian...
Oh ya, just read one of my school friend's blog. She mentioned this is a recent blog entry:
Girls tend to avoid people who treat them nicely coz they are afraid that they might not be able to reciprocate.
Girls tend to be attracted to people who dun treat them as nice because of human nature. Humans like challenges and the feeling of being a 'winner'. When a person close to you usually ignores you, almost every day is a gloomy day for you. If one day, he suddenly treats you very nicely, you will be ecstatic!
Without the gloomy days, you wouldn't really feel the ecstasy when he treats you well once in a blue moon. That is the logic behind 'nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai'...Hmm, quite true huh...
Recently I'm thinking that if I only have the following 2 choices, which would I choose?
1) Married with kids. Looks like a happy family but husband has a mistress outside. You're stuck in the marriage (either you love your husband very much or you're concerned about how the divorce will affect the kids). You have to accept the fact that your husband will continue the affair with his mistress, but he still wants you and the kids.
2) The mistress of the above husband-of-another-woman. He treats you very well, giving you everything you want and the both of you are happy together. But you know that you will never have a 'happily-ever-after' coz he has no intentions of leaving his wife and children. You also have to know that you will never have a 'status' and will be labeled as a 'third party'.
If there are no other alternatives, which one would YOU choose???
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