Tuesday, August 16, 2005
I'm really disappointed...
Guys are all bastards. To a certain extent, yes, ALL GUYS are bastards.
Recently have had some serious chit chat sessions with some of my guy friends. I can't help but feel disappointed in guys. I've always known that there are both good and bad guys out there, and the truth is...99% of the guys are bad and only 1% are the good ones (and that is on the optimistic side) I never thought that it would be so unequal, unbalanced, unfair and un-wateverelse.
Why do I say this? Not I anyhow 'bom' one ok. According from all the 'statements ' from my guy friends, this is the conclusion I've drawn. In order to prevent you all from 'shooting' me left-right-center regarding this conclusion, I think I should state a few in order to appease the crowd.
Situation 1: Most guys like to shortlist a few girls at a time. Meaning that they 'like' a few girls at a time, be close with all of them and then in the end be with the one whom they think is easier to get.
Girls' views: Girls DON'T DO THAT ok!!! Okay, I admit sometimes we do like a few guys at a time too. But we dun get close to all of them at one time and then be together with the one whom 'is easier to get' okay. We usually will decide who's the one we like the most in due time and then focus on that one.
Situation 2: Guy already got a gf. Their relationship is stable and without any problems at the point of time. Suddenly there comes another girl who likes the guy. According to my sources, as long as the girl is not a scary-monster-type or 'dinosaur', they will be tempted.
Girls' views: F**K U GUYS LOH!!! Really dun understand why guys are so easily tempted...a bunch of no-brains-only-know-how-to-think-with-their-penises-f**kers. For most girls, if this thing happens to them, it is quite difficult for them to be tempted unless there's already a problem in the current relationship with bf. Girls will usually try to avoid the guy so that the guy will get the 'hint'. (No doubt girls will feel pleased with themselves that they are actually STILL attractive, but no way...no way will they be so easily tempted)
Situation 3: Guy caught gf doing something she shoudn't. (the thing will depend on how open-minded you are la...hug, kiss, behaving intimately, ONS...) Okay, it's definitely wrong of her to do so. Guys will find it more difficult to accept the fact and to forgive plus forget.
Girls' views: If the same thing happens to us, no doubt we will find it difficult to accept too. But after an intense and careful argument and measurement with my guy friends, girls' tolerance level are generally higher than guys in terms of this kinda forgive-and-forget stuff. And to clear any doubts that you guys might have, this is commented by a friend saying that it is so nice of girls to give a chance - I did emphasize to him that it's only ONE chance, which also depends on how much you like the guy also.
BASTARDSBASTARDSBASTARDSBASTARDSBASTARDSBASTARDSBASTARDSBASTARDS
Sigh...I'm really so disappointed...My belief in LOVE dropped another notch down again. For me, it's actually quite simple...I only follow 2 principles in a relationship:
1) Things that I do not want my bf to do, I'll make sure that I wun do it first. So in turn, I will assume that watever my bf does, it would be okay for me to do it too.
2) In a relationship, I will give my very best. (although might not be up to expectations) This is so because I want to make sure that I would not have any regrets after the relationship end. I do not want to keep blaming myself for the end of the relationship - keep thinking 'it's all my fault...if I hadn't done this and that, this wouldn't have happened...' would only make the break-up more difficult for me to accept.
Sorry...another one of my serious blog entries again...can't help it...too many things happened around me recently which triggered all these thoughts...Sigh...
p/s: Girls' views represents my views and some of my girlfriends' that I've talked to before. It does not represent ALL GIRLS in the whole-wide-world.
Elyse bitching @ 12:39 AM | comment
